In a stereotypical argument this is what a girl will say to her boyfriend and he will then complain that he meant what he said and the way it was said is irrelevant. Whatever your stance on this scenario… have a think about what you can learn from the title quote if you think about how you can apply it to the first impression people get of you!?

Often it is true… that the content of what is said is far less relevant than the way one comes across. Whether this means posture, neat appearance or correct use or grammar, the first few seconds of a first meeting undoubtedly have a profound effect on opinions.

Now… think how this relates to a job interview? Often the way you act and say things will matter more than the content of what you say. Obviously someone isn’t going to employ you if you have absolutely nothing to bring to a company, but a good impression will definitely differentiate between similar candidates.

There are many ways that you can improve your first impression. Making sure you are well presented is key, as is your friendliness to everyone you meet in the company. Eye contact, smiling and trying to introduce some rapport with the interviewer can also enhance your chances of getting that job. Notice the details of people that are important figures in the company or that impress and try to mirror them. Remember to sell yourself in all aspects of your character. If you want further advice and to get more confidence get an experienced interview coach.